Bollywood movies have a great reach. You have people from every society and every age group watching movies and getting impacted by them on a daily basis. We see kids dancing to songs whose lyrics they do not even understand. We find the fans throwing dialogues in other people’s faces. Now, our movie industry offers lots of action, dramas, entertainment and social messages. There are movies which will force you to think and impact you in such positive ways.
However, I couldn’t help but notice, that over the years, Bollywood movies (not all) have propagated certain ideas to the audiences about how to get girls or how to impress them. But sadly, what works in movies will not work in real life.
Here are the 5 lies Bollywood movies told you about getting a girl:
STALKING MAKES THE GIRL NOTICE YOU
In the Hindi movies, the girl might fall for the guy who is constantly following her and watching her every move. But this is a complete disaster in real life. Stalking is repulsive and very idiotic. It does not impress a girl, it frightens her. Also, it indicates that you do not have a life of your own because clearly you have nothing else to do other than stalking a girl.
PERFORMING DANGEROUS STUNTS IS IMPRESSIVE
There are other ways of making a girl realise that you would do great things for her. Performing stupid acts like circus animals or putting your life at risk is not one of those ways. While the Bollywood actors survive those stunts, you may come back with broken limbs.
GIRLS LIKE IT WHEN GUYS ARE FIERCELY POSSESSIVE
Being too possessive about your girl just goes on to show that you are wildly insecure. I have seen girls who are scared of talking to other guys because their boyfriend won’t like it. But guess what, you cannot tell someone who they can and cannot talk to. That is a very personal decision. Animals mark their territory, gentlemen don’t need to!
ALL GIRLS VIEW MARRIAGE AS THE ULTIMATE COMMITMENT
You need to know a person well before taking the plunge and getting married. When guys think it is alright to propose marriage within a few days of meeting the girl, it puts the girl in a very difficult position. Not all girls think that dating has to end in marriage.
SINGING SONGS FOR THE GIRL IS IMPRESSIVE
Singing songs with suggestive lyrics, especially for a girl, when you are out in public is not cute. And when you have no idea about the girl, this stupid tactic is known as eve teasing. Not to mention, it is a punishable offense.